So I am sitting thinking "What should my role be in telling the girls that W is moving out?". I know W expects us to tell them together. I think that is what my IC told me needs to be done for the children's sake. But seriously, what will I say? Do I need to say anything? How can I answer the questions when I don't fully comprehend why W is doing this myself?
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let her explain it to the kids with you there. make sure you have a dialouge prior with your wife on what will be said. think thru it. you need to be confident and strong - your kids and wife will all be watching how you handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.