She might be seeing reality, she also may be fishing for something damning to your case, I don't know. You did well to let her know that after D, you will not be there to get back together.
My wife said that her plan was for us to be great friends and even live in houses side by side to each other. I told her that she needed to get out of la la land that I would not live anywhere near her, and that we would never be great friends, I could not be friends with someone that broke up my family and potentially hurt the well being of my children. She was shocked by me saying this.
