I don't know what else to day. I'm really struggling today. At this point it's just a matter of getting through each moment.
Originally Posted By: karen43
This process takes a while. It's not over yet. I just spoke to a friend yesterday who had filed for D and then she realized she missed him, it was very $$$, and reality set in, she dropped it. They're now attending MC and she says she's happy. (Seemed a lot happier than when she was planning on D). Your W will be finding consequences too. Don't rescue her from them or try to help her with them.
I can hope.
Bill, You just got another bomb dropped on you. Stay busy - if nothing else go for a walk (a long one.) What Karen posted to you is kinda what happened to me (plus my good looks, superior intellect and sense of humor all helped.) You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.