A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

Ok, this time I did snoop. (Bad Dia!!)

H did hide the mail.

The card is not from OW. It's to kidlet from one of the D-'s grandchildren and is most likely a birthday invitation. It was not open and I did not open it. (Wouldn't have opened it if it was from OW, either.)

So, commence speculation and mind-reading (More bad Dia!!)

There was absolutely no reason for him to hide the mail if he knew that card was to kidlet. Ok, maybe the D-'s told him that I'm not invited to the party, but H has been pretty comfortable excluding me if he thinks the situation warrants. A 'she's not invited' is the only reason I can think of for him hiding the mail if he knew what the card was.

High likelihood then that HE thought the card was from OW, too. And since he's now had ample opportunity to open it privately, it's kinda interesting that he hasn't. I'm not reading too much into that, though.

And yeah, I'm having a hard day, today. Lot on my plate. I leave tomorrow morning to go back down south for Gramma's service.

The bone from the ham is currently being made into split pea soup. Split pea soup was the last meal I ate before kidlet was born. Didn't plan it that way - that's just what one does with a ham bone, ya know?

I'm feeling wistful and sad.