I know you love your wife (or the image of your wife that you keep in your mind's eye). This creature you are living with now isn't that woman.
Your lawyer will file for an extension if he/she thinks it has tactical advantage so don't sweat the timing. Get a good lawyer and he will know what he is doing.
Expect next an order to vacate your home. Maybe a trumped up restraining order to force you out. Women can be damn mean when they want to (so can guys so relax out there).
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .