Gotcha BBJ...at the risk of repeating myself and being called ridiculous or worse: I agree with your pastor, if Dan has not been sexually active with you during the last X months, he IS getting it somewhere else. This is how most men and some women are wired. So do not wait for proof BBJ. There is no doubt in my mind that 95% of WASs are getting it elsewhere. The problem is that we always think we fall into the 5%.