There's the rub with detaching. We (the LBS) get to the point where we detach so much that we find ourselves wondering if we really want this damaged person in our lives. I'm in the same conflict.
In your case, you're not going to get your H to learn to become H of the Year overnight. First he has to show that he wants to be with you and that he'll respect you. Then the work comes after.
I think a part of you still wants to try just for the sake of saying you've tried everything. Maybe approach the sitch with a casual interest. He has to do the work to get you back.
Just keep ignoring him and take care of business. In your sitch, going out and being unreachable would work.
See gucci? I never said your "method" doesn't work. I think it works for certain sitches like AAK's here. Then it becomes a matter if she really wants it or not.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
