Apparently dating can be a good strategy to help the WAS realize what they're losing. So I guess it could be seen as doing what works.
Karen,
Thanks for the feedback. And yes, that would be my only real reason for doing it. Right now, my WAS thinks she can play me like a little lost puppy, so I have gone NC (as much as possible with children involved). I also want to try to shock her back to reality a little and let her realize what she's losing.
I probably won't do it (too chicken), but thought this would make for a good discussion.
