From what I've been reading so far, you seem to be doing fine under the circumstances.
The only thing I see is that you need to work more on GAL and work on detaching more from the W. Be mysterious, elusive and start pushing more of her jealousy buttons.
Just my 2c.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT