The answer is simple. Don't respond. Period. Text him tomorrow and say, "I didn't have my phone on. Talk to you later." Then turn the phone off.
Hey Stuck. You are getting better at this....
Just a fine tune here on what you advised...
Don't respond. Period.
Do what works.
Gucci!!! Thanks for coming by. Is it working? If he is pursuing and it stresses me out so? I find it hard to focus and move on like this.
I have detached to the point that I really doubt I could ever be with him again. I feel that what I'm doing is intriguing to him.
BUT, when I am rude (not responding to an invitation etc), I think it becomes more about him (little boy) trying to make sure I (mommy) isn't mad at him. And, I'm not mad, I just want to live my life.
And of course my inner Cinderella wants it to magically all work out but...I just don't see how that is possible.
Isn't responding just a matter of civility?
Go ahead and set me straight here. I need it. I'm feeling really down now.
I was just telling my friend that as sad as it is, I am happier now than I was with H and low and behold...he rides up on his donkey (or maybe he is the donkey)...
Do what works.
