Wow, Trapt, interesting, right?

First of all, you are supposed to thank HER for taking care of her daughter and school? What?

I think you are right, she is feeling very badly about herself right about now and is projecting.

As she continues through the process, she is going to have to deal with things one thing at a time. Its gonna suck to be her even more now.

Be true to yourself and do what's best for you.

Let her work through this one step at a time. You are probably going to see more anger as she does.

I think you handled it in your wonderful, insightful way.