Sure, I think it seems obvious to me and prob. most people that you would want to spend the night with him, do something special. But I think some men need stuff spelled out for them
Pre-marriage, he went out of his way to make sure he was packed and ready to go so we had some time together. He doesn't need it spelled out for him.
Originally Posted By: karen43
Also, instead of confronting him over the phone, sounds like you argued about his treating you while he's on a trip and busy, maybe wait until he gets home and then do a discussion about how you feel when he treats you like that, and just communicating with him your feelings, but not accusing or yelling or whatever.
There was no accusing or yelling, just a statement that I'm upset you haven't called me. Why in the world would I wait until he got home - in a month!
I can tell you have a kind heart Karen, but really, you might want to follow along with Gucci on my thread and others. You might benefit from his perspective and developing a little spunk.
