NOPkins is right. The Fireman is a waste of time. Not worth going to jail over. I will leave him alone, but there is part of me that wishes she would invest herself in this guy, only to find out down the line what a loser he is. What I mean is: let her have him, so that I can pursue someone genuine and watch the wife self-destruct.
I will be dropping my daighter off tonight and putting her to bed. The wife will be home around the same time, and I will be kind and considerate, but leave as promptly as possible. She'll probably "want to talk", but I am not comfortable with that now. Let her twist in the wind instead.
Over the weekend, she kept inviting me to do things with her. Then, she tells me that I'm smothering her, and that she needs space. Is this the mark of a truly confused wife or what???