You are welcome. I know it hurts for some people to hear things like I told you. I never do it to hurt you ,but to help. I have been doing this far too long to allow people in a situation such as your's not hear what is probably the actual truth. It won't be long you will have someone coming on here telling you and me that it IS possible that she isn't having an affair and it IS possible for a woman to leave a man without having an affair and yada yada yada..
The truth is that I have NO DOUBT she is lying to you.
The signs are ALL there..
1. Wants to leave you. 2. doing things with another man 3. won't work on healing the relationship with you (they will usually work on the relationship if they DON'T have someone else (unless there has been serious abuse) what would they have to lose? ) 4. Sudden trips or vacations with.. mother, father, friends from work, aunts, uncles, all alone. and on and on and on
I am sure there are more that I am unaware of...
My take is that she is lying to you. I think you would be able to divorce bust better if you knew the facts and truth. Don't you? How can you correctly solve a problem if you don't know what the real problem is?
Many on here are against snooping.. NOT ME...
I say you need to be like Columbo. Find out what is REALLY going on and if she IS having an affair. Do not ask her because she will lie. You seem like a smart guy. Figure out something yourself. Remember. The Aunt and Uncle could very well be a cover. This trip with them is HIGHLY SUSPECT. Lovers sneak away all the time and will do and find any way possible to get some alone time. You don't think she would NOT have a cover story for a lie do you? (you must not be very good at lying if you don't know how to cover up for one)
Again.. This isn't meant to hurt you BUT TO HELP YOU.
