As far as the conversation - one difference was I refrained from arguing about OM - I told her I am done talking about him and that if she wanted to argue about it we could do it in front of an C and that I am tired of devoting energy to it. Her opinions about what is appropriate in that area are totally ridiculous.
I had a different attitude during the conversation than I had had in the past. I was more confident I think, and also very firm about what I was saying regarding M being over and that I was dissapointed that we couldn't find a way to make it work, but oh well. I was tired of sharing a W with others.
I never got emotional or angry. The conversation went on because she didn't get overly emotional either (she usually blows first and then I walk away).
Yes, keep thinking out loud so you really understand it.
Plus hopefully some more DBers will see it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
