riding the big roller coaster...

[hopeinwaiting]

I am beginning, just beginning to see that my life and my family can continue and be complete with him.

Ok, meant to say "my life and my family can continue and be complete withOUT him"

Little slip on my part.

@Burt, regarding money. I realized that since I pay the car insurance, I had been paying his as well and am no longer willing to do that. I do not support him financially. In fact, so far he has been pretty good at giving me the $ I've asked for Ds' school. I've asked for 1/2 D's daycare, 1/2 other D's afterschool, his insurance and now 1/2 girls medical premiums (that come out of my paychedk). Total will be about 1/3 of his paycheck.

I make 2x as him, but I also have the mortgage, new car payment (yeah, he has my old car with no pmnt), the other half of everything above and food/bills that he previously paid for! Hope I'm being fair.