As far as the conversation - one difference was I refrained from arguing about OM - I told her I am done talking about him and that if she wanted to argue about it we could do it in front of an C and that I am tired of devoting energy to it. Her opinions about what is appropriate in that area are totally ridiculous.
I had a different attitude during the conversation than I had had in the past. I was more confident I think, and also very firm about what I was saying regarding M being over and that I was dissapointed that we couldn't find a way to make it work, but oh well. I was tired of sharing a W with others.
I never got emotional or angry. The conversation went on because she didn't get overly emotional either (she usually blows first and then I walk away).
Last edited by tryingtilDorR; 08/27/0905:18 PM.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline
