Agreeing with her that there is no hope for M and that it is over since that is what she has been telling me and that I am tired of living like this.

Showing her that I was serious about taking steps to split up (living arrangements, support, etc).

Giving in to what she has been saying (M has no hope) and showing I was serious about moving on.

Before I would always argue with her that she needed to give it time and she might change her mind, etc etc.

Sandi had told me that when you drop the rope, the WAS will KNOW it. I might have crossed that line finally.

What happened last night was a small movement, but notable.

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline