BTW - note on dresser - I haven't seen enough of her writing to be certain. There's a name on the note that I might recognize - friend of a family friend sort of thing. I *think* the note is along the lines of "Call X and she'll come by to pick up the toys."
OW lives far away, so H would have to drop the toys off at OW father's house, or someone would have to come get them.
Since my cleaning projects include mucking out and organizing kidlet's room and the guest room, eventually I will have the opportunity to 'organize' those toys. ATM, however, I am "not noticing them", so to speak. The duplos (big legos for babies) could concievably be kidlet's (they're not), but the big wheel and little pink shoes... those get under my skin a bit.
Edit: we had a miscarriage not too long before the split. Seeing the pink shoes especially hurts because I wanted a girl and she'd be about that old right now.
Last edited by Dia; 08/27/0905:14 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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