Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

Went pretty well. Sorry it has taken me a bit to get back on here. Got to court and was dreading going. I got there and from what my attorney said, her lawyer is getting tired of the case. Apparently he usually represents sports figures and such. I guess the more her legal team digs into this I think the more that they find that there is really nothing there. Her lawyer asked for a continuance. So we do not have to be back until Oct. 14th. Things at work have gotten pretty bad. Her brother is trying to get me fired. I have been using the past few days to look for another job. I will not go back for another week and a half. The W called me Tues. night. First time she has called me in over a month. I did not answer but later called her back. Said basically she is tired of the legal things, lawyers, money being wasted, etc. I wanted to tell her that this is not because of me but figured what was the point. She then called me again yesterday afternoon and talked to me for about an hour. This time she was really nice and friendly. Talking about the kids etc. She tells me on the phone (unprovoked) that she loves me and always has and always will and that she has not given her heart to anyone else. She says that she knows this D is supposed to happen and that it will make us stronger etc. I just listened and did not say anything. I let her finish and told her that I did not see how a D would make things better. She tells me that she feels like we will get together again down the road. This was all just silly to me. I am not waiting around if she pushes this all the way through. She tells me that she is mad that I booted her from facebook. I told her that I did it because of the letters I have received from her attorney about how she feels as though I am pressuring her etc. I said friends don't send letters like that to their friends. She calls me later last night and talks again. I tried to keep it on the kids and I could tell the more I did the more the guard came down. At one point she starts telling me that she sees all of the changes in my life and she wants to know if they are for real. She says I could have been a better father etc. before and I did all I could do to reaffirm how she feels. Her response was "you don't have to agree with everything I say." She then starts talking about finances and how she is having a tough time making it. Doesn't like living at her parents etc. I told her that I would help her get an apartment but she was not interested. When she could tell that I was not going to give in and give her more money she got all upset and said "It always has to be your way. This just tells me that you don't care about me love me or care about my feelings." I said how does it say that? She had no response. She ended up hanging up on me and I did not call her back. I don't care. I know she needs to crash and be humbled. It has not happened yet and I hope it will. I really don't want her to feel like she needs me for financial reasons but if it is the means of her beginning to take a look at reality then fine. Thats pretty much it up until today. Sorry that it took a while guys. Do you think these are signs of her seeing reality? Any suggestions? RTQ