Let her decide but you must be the better man. This is not a decision she will make based soley on logic. A strong, confident man is not going to share his wife with another man. The issue here isn't about who is giving your wife more pressure. Be in control, stand up for what you believe in, but don't be controlling. You can handle it.
Coach, This too makes sense. I guess there is a part of me that feels guilt and love and wants to take the pressure off her.
But what I really want ultimately is to save our marriage and see all of us happy again.
Last edited by RedSoxFan; 08/27/0904:57 PM.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
