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[RedSoxFan]

If she asks you what you think be very clear. No expectations for what she is going to do. Don't get emotional.
Be a great Dad to your kids. Improve your home. Talk about and take actions on your goals. Improve yourself physically, mentally ,emotionally and spiritually.

I've agreed that I won't bother her about her seeing OM but she knows where I stand with respect to wanting to save the marriage. CI am hands-down doing the above and succeeding very well at it.