Responded to a thread that as usual sounded so similar to what I went through. The LBS had no choice but to protect his kids from the A and file for D but had been hopeful (as usual) that things would pan out.
So that got me to thinking of XW's new comments that the D is 'all my fault' because she wanted to drag it along "to think". I know it's a bunch of b/s because how can you think when you live with someone else, but still, makes me wonder of all the things I could have done differently and if the outcome would have still been the same. Probably, the M went completely toxic when she moved in with him in her father's house and her father said nothing of it.
The hindsight 20/20 is this was all planned out a long time ago with many conspirators. A lot of stuff still does not make any sense what so ever.
Guess that was just a random thought posting before I went and did something stupid like text her or anything, of which I have been stone cold on communicating with her. Tomorrow ought to be interesting when I pick up the kids. We haven't spoken at all since her blow up last Tuesday. And since I refuse to swap weekends with her sighting I have plans of my own, she'll want to know those plane of which is none of her business and will just rekindle her fire on the matter.
hehe, can't wait.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
