On the verge of a meltdown.

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@gucci loafer

Yes I agree the employment situation can be an issue.I am currently seeking employment.but I do need to make a career change and the lapse in work is making it a slow process.

".She then goes to a baseball game with this guy. You find out from YOUR son that she was at the game? Correct? She gets home at 4:00 am?"

She did have the kids with her and they went by train.that is why they did not get home until 4:00 AM.

So, your son that is 12 years old can see what is happening and you don't?
Then of course as a typical WAW, she denies it and you are relieved. Any chance that she is lying like most all WAW's do? I think she is.

And now this.....????? She is going on a cruise? With her Aunt and Uncle (nun and a priest?????)

My son did verify this.he overheard the conversation between her and her uncle.

I know there are a lot of red flags.I did voice my concern again and she again said that there is nothing going on.that it's just our son and his are friends but without proof I am kind of at a loss.I don't know if I should approach this guy or not.I would like to believe her,or do I try and get proof.this has put me in a spot.I don't want to push her further away.and I don't like the way it feel's I have pains in my chest while I type this never mind think about it.at this point I am not just sure what to do.