She was pissed that I sent the messages to Fireman. She even went so far as to send him an apologetic text message, so she IS defending him! I feel like she cares more about him than about me, or us.
She now says that I'm confining her, and that she needs some space. I can't seem to do anything right. I give of my time, and spend quality time with her and the girls, now she says she needs space. This is becoming so hard. I do know that we MUST get into couples counseling before the end of the week. I just am having trouble getting the therapist lined up. We're hanging by a thread, and I feel like calling the wife and saying *Let's call the lawyers and just get this over with*.
Other than staying away from the Fireman, what would you want YOUR husband to do, if you were my wife? Please help me!!
