ACJ, not a bad idea if your D is having those types of feelings. She may end up spending more time with you if you have a different place.

My kids may feel better if I have a different place but my D and my younger S seem to be disappointed that I am considering selling the house. I know my D had mentioned at one time that she would like to have her wedding reception at our house. We just recently held a pretty nice 17th bday party for her in our backyard at her request.

I believe that it may be the best thing to sell it. There may be some subconscious reasons that they are not at the house because of painful memories.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God