Dia, Just wanted to let you know you are being a leader in your family right now. Keep handling it. My Greek FIL uses a expression - "The camels nose is in the tent." Meaning just a matter of time before the whole camel will be in the tent. In your case "the camels nose is in the tent."
Cheers
Thank you for stopping in, Coach. I needed a pick-me-up this morning. With the increased heat on the R with OW, H is whipsawing more than usual and it's requiring greater effort and strength from me. I can handle it (on top of a move, a new job, school starting and a death in the family, no less. Oy!), but every bit of encouragement helps.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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