Dia, Just wanted to let you know you are being a leader in your family right now. Keep handling it. My Greek FIL uses a expression - "The camels nose is in the tent." Meaning just a matter of time before the whole camel will be in the tent. In your case "the camels nose is in the tent."

Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.