I would prefer to sell the house and get something more easy to maintain
I too have been contemplating this too. For the last 4yrs keeping the house has been on of my main foci. However a couple of weeks ago my mum told me that my elder D had confided in her that she hates coming home (she is at uni) as the house now holds so many bad memories for her. D19 has never told me this herself and I have to be honest and say I was shocked about this. So MMF buying somewhere new where you AND your kids can have a new start might actually be the missing piece of jigsaw that you are looking for.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
