I have a few things I think you should seriously consider...
First is the fact that you don't have a job. I understand that you say you had the car accident and such, but it still doesn't take away from the very distinct possibility that your wife doesn't respect you. Here she is working and holding a job (and I thought you said working some overtime.)
Not to say you are using the accident for and excuse not to work, BUT.. ARE YOU?
Enough about that.
I think your wife is very very possibly in an affair...
Why do I think this?
Let's go over the followning quotes..
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great more drama so I asked well were is mom.She went to the game.so like an idiot I asked with who.she went with a co-worker(male-divorced)and a S9.now thing get a little queasy.and the brain starts swelling.I don't have any proof but they seem to spend a lot of time together,play softball, take the kids, out so on so on.I don't know if I should ask her about it our try to find out for myself.either way I think if I find out it is that will be the last event I need to send me to the twilight Zone.I hope and pray I am wrong but the hair on the back of my neck tells me different.
So they spend a lot of time together? play together? take the kids ? PLUS the fact that she is now backed off on a relationship with you?
2+2=4
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am beginning to think my suspicions where right.W did not get home until after 4:00 AM.and she had S8 with her I know the game was over @ 10:30 .and it is a 2 - 2.5 hour drive.I have been up all night unable to sleep.all this crap is just running through my head and it really sucks.God I want a lobodomy.I am not sure what to say or how to atemp to say anything.I want to approach this guy and ask WTF.I know him not that it matters.I'm just torn.any thoughts on this would help because right now I am in a serious fog.
She then goes to a baseball game with this guy. You find out from YOUR son that she was at the game? Correct? She gets home at 4:00 am?
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I also had a chat with her because I was concerned with S12 as he confided in me saying he wasn't happy about the co-worker(guy)she was hanging out with.he told me he was worried something was going on.I have to admit also I was bothered by it. so I had to inquire.she informed me it was nothing,and if it was really bothering everybody she would stay away.apparently S14 had already confronted her on it also.she also let me know she wasn't the least bit interested in anyone else.which put me at ease a tad.
So, your son that is 12 years old can see what is happening and you don't? Then of course as a typical WAW, she denies it and you are relieved. Any chance that she is lying like most all WAW's do? I think she is.
And now this.....????? She is going on a cruise? With her Aunt and Uncle (nun and a priest?????)
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She is going on a cruise with her Aunt(She is a Nun)and a her uncle (who is a priest).
Trust but verify..... Any chance she is going with the OM? Just coincidence?
RED FLAGS ALL OVER.....
I would take a step back and look at what is going on more closely. Even your 12 year old is telling you something...
