I can relate. My H took care of our children last night so I could go to the theater. Positive - he took care of the girls so that I could go to the theater. Negative - my youngest D was crying when I got home and H was asleep on the couch. Married me (a few months ago) would have b*tched him out for not waking up to get d. Now, I try (and it is HARD) to pretend in those instances that I'm a single mom and this guy is helping me out. I did not complain, but I did wake him up (with young d in arms - so he knew she had woken up) to tell him thank you and it was time for him to go to his apt. I figure telling him his wrongs will only push him further away right now. He is like a teenager right now - can't tell him his lessons... he must learn them on his own. But, I feel you pain!!! Take care.
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
