Going on the offensive, calling my attorney. Enough is enough.
Walked out to car this morning. Dan parked in the drive so I was parked on the street. Walking across drive I found folded up papers. Picked them up figuring they were Dan's notes from last night when we did calendar. Nope. It was the directions for a "Don Wand" glass item...let's just say not something straight men would use on themselves and leave it at that.
Mentioned it to him in passing and he said he had no clue how it got on my driveway (where he was parked until midnight) but it sure didn't come from him... OK Dan. I didn't argue I just said he needed to keep his personal stuff personal where the kids don't have to see it and hung up.
I am still sad but also very angry and realistic. This isn't going to be a happy ending situation, short term. Down the road I will look back and realize that I stayed in the fight for longer than I should have and I will be so glad that I can breathe easy again...
OK Dan. I didn't argue I just said he needed to keep his personal stuff personal where the kids don't have to see it and hung up.
