Is your W a strong, independent type (mine is). I have wondered if my W's sense of independence/pride is getting in the way of her being the one to reach out to me first. Your W could be the same way.
Yep got me one of those type woman as well. The flip side is it means your wives can think for themselves. They are thinking about your changes, the future, the kids, and what is the right thing to do. Consistent loving action will show her you are a solid good man. Let her know you want her not need her. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
