Our instinct is to reinforce for them that we love them and we care for them. It’s counter intuitive and feels weird but you have to stop. Just take a step back. If he were really not going to kiss you and you basically forced him to….how do you think that made him feel? I’m not sure, that’s up to you to decide but if you think it had a negative reaction, if it felt like pressure then you have to let that go for now. It’s hard, but stop the R talk and stop the R habits or at least slow them down, back up a bit.