You have to respect her boundaries. Don't call her at all, unless you absolutely have to. Let her call you. And whatever you do, LISTEN. HEAR. VALIDATE.

Don't tell her you love her, she knows. At this point, the only thing you can do is let her take the lead.

You don't need to date, but do have a life of your own. Go out with friends, have dinner, see a movie, shoot some pool. Don't be too available. If this is what she wants, she needs to see the full effect of what it emcompasses.

Rinse is right...calling once a day is too much. That is going to make her feel trapped.

Live life like she is not in it right now.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..