WAW made some comment last night about how she broke me in for my next relationship. I just don't get it - if that is the sort of stuff she is thinking, that I am learned now from my mistakes, why would she not want to take advantage of it rather than just writing it all off and letting someone else reap the benefits?
My W said similar things when she dropped the bomb, but not in a while. I just chose to ignore the comments and chalk them up to the batsh$% crazy talk of the WAS.
She could be testing the water (or you) to see what your reaction will be.
Is your W a strong, independent type (mine is). I have wondered if my W's sense of independence/pride is getting in the way of her being the one to reach out to me first. Your W could be the same way.