Okay so update. stbx actually called me last night. Now I have not talked to him in almost five months. Why call now?
My BK payments are behind because I lost my job and he got notice from the trustee. I just so happened to get the life insurance check yesterday in the mail, so I planned to get the certified check today to catch up, and told him that. Then he tells me that it is not his immigration status that has prevented him from filing, it is the fact that he was in a very bad car accident about three months ago and has been trying to pay the repairs to his truck. I told him I had said some mean things because I was very angry at the fact that he could not be supportive when my brother died. Not only that, but he had been very mean to me the last four months, and it really ticked me off. He said he thought I was using the situation to try to reconcile with him.
WTF? I mean seriously dude...MY BROTHER DIED. I didn't give a sh!t about that at this point, but he thinks that is what it is. Jerk. I told him that was not the case, and that I had given up on him a long time ago.
I mean, seriously, can we get more conceited? He said he knew he could get the filing fee for the divorce from me, but it was a matter of pride. I told him that he had no right to be proud anymore, and that I just wanted to move on with my life.
The thing that kills me is why call me now? I mean I have been really mean to him the last few texts I have been trying to send him, because frankly I just don't care anymore. And NOW he wants to call?
WTF?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
