GG I did tell my L to mention in the agreement w does not want D and would like H to attend C in hopes of saving the M MY L made this clear several times to my XH L you can have ity in the agreement you can ask your L to stall in every way possible You can make H do all the work and his L make all the changes and it will cost him a lot let his L draw the agreement up and you L can just cross stuff off you may be able to contest the D in my state, they did give us a time limit though so that is how they push it along Im sorry for your pain I just went thru it last year and it is so difficult but once over much better peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow