he's had plenty of time to hide finanacial stuff, move stuff around...and do what ever else he has done....he's stalled for a reason...and it's not because he don't know what he wants...he has some other reason..and it's probably all about the money...
I think I know exactly why he stalled. He drew up a list on paper, assets/debts. According to the L he went to (mine said it too last year), you just line them up, cancel them out, and split the difference. Since he moved out in January, he bought his house, bought a new car, bought a manure spreader, windows for his house...all have big debt. So now I split half of his debt. So he won't have to pay me as much in a settlement b/c he offset his $$ with new purchases.
Plus his 401K is on the rise, it was 85K then in the financial crisis went to 30. It has come up to 55K in the past 6 months. So I am sure he wants to cash it out before it grown again, just to keep me from getting it..
I knew he was 'broken', and I knew he was hurting, but I didn't know he was plotting. Sorry I didn't listen, Mikey
