Replay takes a very long time, depending upon their issues. Some can be as short as 7 months and others 2-3 years. Just remember that the less you aggravate them, the sooner they will heal and move on into acceptance
We can handle our situations w/class and strength. They thought we would end up like them--confused, upset, in pain, etc. The happier you are, the worse that they will feel. I've seen this several times. In their sick little minds, they want us to be as miserable as they are, don't go there! A word of advice, never let your h see you upset or crying. They can't handle the guilt of such sightings.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
