Kat - Thanks for being happy for me! Must check out your thread btw. We did see alot of old friends this weekend, was like old times and they looked amazed at how "normal" we are, like we had never been apart!!
Mish - You are so right, it DID feel like a brand new R, a new bf, so wierd, I remember posting in the early weeks about us "telling our stories" to each other, as though we had just met (we knew them all in fact!).. now the opposite is true, its like the S never happened. So wierd. As for BFF, she called me last night! First time since June. She joked she had finally phoned the house.. so I think, like his Mum (who is only just warming to me again) they took 3 months to get used to 'losing us' after being used to phoning me, and his Mum him, every single night that we were apart.
Hey T..where you been !? I have to say, thats the frustrating thing, we dont have any issues in this area and already had fireworks but our s*x life was transformed really from being more honest and glad to be back together, I'm talking NYE grade fireworks!! Plus, I did read PM and I have remembered the couples stories and have been using that approach with him, but I wont make him read it himself. Its just infrequent!!
T, Rob...he stopped C because he thought it wasnt helping, the lady was just "well meaning". I got free MC with my job, with Relate and at first he agreed to go, but then he said he didnt feel that we needed it, as we were able to talk to each other as things cropped up and he felt things were going fine?
K.. call anytime, you wont disturb us ! You are right thanks for reminding me.. so last night.. I created a moment! and that worked fine and then its no longer a big deal and maybe the gaps in between dont matter for now, because yes, just to lie alongside him and wake up there is a joy in itself and I am grateful. xx
