I hear you - and I feel your pain and bitterness. I'm 'stuck' in that mode too. It's a travesty of the worst kind.
I'm in Australia and we are very isolated from what you may think goes on over here! It's not far off being a one-horse town in the country region where I am living and whilst this was good when H was around, now it is not so.
Thanks for the website - I shall have a look and see if there are any options there for me.
Have you been DB'ing with your W ... ?
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"