Yes John, all the hurdles you mention I had identified and was fed up with them, and now, we all know why things were the way they were... 25th was my deadline. To myself.
I was reading an article lodo posted a link for on his thread. How a woman, 7 years after the divorce, already in a good relationsip, wishes she had more patience and clear head. I think that did it to me last night.
I am REQUESTING from me to be smart and logical and move forward in a way that I will never be able to regret anything. Sometimes it's almost like a fight between the humanly possible and divine expectations. Hard to explain.
I am moving forward. At some point I have to accept -again- that I need to follow thru and change the page. Once and for all. No holding backs, the grief should not be able to alter the real nusty picture. It is what it is.
Can I give the power of attorney to someone and never have to look into separation agreement and divorce papers? I dont want to look at my kid's names on these papers, dividing their lives and making THEM part of a business deal... K
