Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[MrBond]

So true. I do accept the fact that she may leave or stay. I'm fine with both. It's my kids I'm worried about. Especially my oldest. So I think I'll hold on the ultimatum a bit longer.

So tonight, I'm asking her how her day was. She sounded a little irked, but lightened up after awhile and just started talking. Then almost as an afterthought, she asked me how my day was. This was something that I mentioned in my email to her that I needed. I needed to talk to someone about my day and just to talk. She hadn't done that in a long time. So last night I was quietly happy that she remembered. But I'm taking it as a one time deal for now.

Question is, if she was really checked out of the M, why would she even ask? I could also tell that she was looking at me playing with our kids across the room. I think she is conflicted big time.

I'm kind of taking it like that Laura Munson person who wrote that article in the NYT about her H who seemed to be in MLC. She rode it out and let him sort it out himself. Right now, that's what I'm trying to do.

Any thoughts, anyone?