Next issue I am dealing with is out impending Wedding Anniversary in September. It will be a Friday and I am dreading that H goes interstate ... it would be so much nicer if he could find it in him to meet up with me! Any ideas of how I could weave him a bit toward that thought?

H ruined my birthday as was with OW for weekend and I can't bear the same happening again - on our Special Day.

Do I send him a card/text/email on the day, or ignore it as a 180, as I am sure will be the advice??


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09