I posted in Newcomers but really need advice. To make loooong stories short, I am in a long distance relationship with my husband b/c I am in grad school, and he got a new job. We've had problems before, stemming from his unhappiness with life in general. He's been a real jerk just in the past couple of weeks, turns out from me reading his email and phone records he is having some sort of affair and that there has been infidelity with another woman in past. Don't know details. Almost flew down to confront him yesterday and got halfway there (I had connecting flight) before my parents talked me out of it- said I should do it over the phone rather than pursuing him down there. They say if there's any hope for reconciliation he will come here. I am screaming with pain- haven't slept or eaten much. Will confront tomorrow when he calls. I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM, despite everything!!!! PLEASE advise about confronting him and what I should tell him about going from here. I have a plane ticket to go down next week- should I go? Or tell him that my door is open as soon as HE is ready to heal the marriage? Don't want to make demands but my same old same old is pursuing, appeasing, etc. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
