Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[MrBond]

AAK,

Well that's the dilemma. I thought about giving her an ultimatum like that, but I don't think she's at that point where she'd go for it. I think she still has that "one foot out the door" mentality.

Let me ask you then. If your H told you to start focussing on him and your own life (as an individual) while you were still into your kids, what would you have told him? What would you have told him if he told you that you were depressed?

I'd be curious to hear from those who had the S that came out of MLC as well as those who came out of MLC.

Would an ultimatum work?