But reality check. If you and your XW had remained happily M would you be expecting to do something with the kids every night? It's a sad fact (but maybe a good one) that kids cope with change far better than adults. Also your kids are at an age where they don't want to spend every waking hour with thier parents. So this is your need and not yours. Believe me I know how hard this is but just try to relax around them and see what happens.
P.S. I find it harder to carry out this advice than give it
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
