News tonight: the judge dismissed the divorce proceedings because of inactivity for the past 6 months. My W's lawyer filed a motion to keep the case active a week ago. But the judge denied it and ruled to close the case today...
I should be rejoicing but I have mixed feelings. When my W will be informed about this, I hope she won't be emboldened to refile and this time go with the proceedings all the way. I pray she doesn't. I don't know what to make of today's decision by the judge. How shall I talk when I call my W for our weekly phone link-up? I'm afraid to even call at this point. I hope she won't be angry and act upon it by refiling, but this time for good.
Of course I am looking at the worst case scenario because I don't know what's going to happen next as far as her reaction goes. I should just let go and not worry about it. I can only DB and continue on the path that has saved me. No need to make scenarios and read into everything...Anyway, I'm kind of lost right now.What to do? What to say? No idea.
JR
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11