Just got in and started readin today's post. You have some wonderful support here. I noticed you apologized to me for still loving your husband. First off, you do NOT need to apologize to me for any reason. Secondo, are you forgetting that I gave my xw another chance even though I knew she cheated on me. Granted I did not have the details you have nor did it go on for 3,5 years but....I gave it another shot. It did not work...for reasons that are still unknown to me. Like Mike and a few others say; their loss. I don't think anyone can some up with a miracle cure for your pain. Time as RTL suggests is indeed the conqueror. I jsut want to leave you with a thought. I keep remembering you mentionning August 25th....I remember you mentionning the long work hours.....I remember you mentionning his emotional and sexual emptiness towards you....those are some mighty big hurdles for anybody. The way you described your husband since I have been following your sitch....this would be a huge longhshot....this would be Y.E. yang beating Tiger in the final round of a major! I guess upsets can and do happen once in a while.... You know K, if there is one thing I learned in all this bullsh!t is when you have emotional attachment, it is very difficult to think clearly. But deep down we ALL know what needs to be done. We just need to summon the courage to act...the quicker the better. My dad who is a man of few words told me right from the get go..right after the bomb....walk and don't look back (he has no idea who the Rolling Stones are or Peter Tosh).....it was obvious to him...it is obvious to me. However, like my dad, happiness (yours) is all that really matters.
